Thu. Jun 30th, 2022

Introduction: Why Should You Apologize For the Monster You’ve Become?

If you are constantly living in the past, make it a habit to take responsibility for your actions. That is the very first step to making amends, and learning to live in a healthy state of mind. Often the difficulty of apologizing resides in feeling like you are letting yourself down. But, is it not more disappointing to live in a state of regret?
Everyone makes mistakes, but it is your responsibility as an individual to make things right. It’s time that you give yourself the chance to start over and make it right. It’s time to stop the cycle of crazy behavior. It’s time to find a way to become better, wiser, and even more of a great person.

why should i apologize for the monster i ve become
why should i apologize for the monster i ve become

What is Apology and How Does it Actually Work?

It’s always been a habit of mine to write. I found it to be a fantastic way to sort out my thoughts and make sense of things that were overwhelming, or seemingly never ending. At first, it was all about me. My experiences, my life, my situations; but then I discovered that writing was a lot like therapy for me. What started as a journal, turned into writing down my feelings and experiences, then I would write about what happened to other people. I realized that I needed to not be so self-obsessed. So, now I let them know what’s going on so they can understand, not so that they keep their distance. Again, this is where I am trying to learn to be more supportive of myself and others; because if you don’t support yourself the whole world will not help you in any way shape or form.
Another thing I did was to write about past loves, lost loves, and love interests. I always knew I would start dating again but never thought it would happen to the extreme that it did. Emotions can hit you at any time and you are usually not expecting them too. And in most cases your emotions take over your mind and make you do irrational things; because it is easier to love than to deal with anger or hurt. At times it can be scary and other times it can be intriguing.

why should i apologize for the monster i ve become
why should i apologize for the monster i ve become

Does Saying Sorry Mean You’re Weak or Just Being Nice?

Saying sorry doesn’t necessarily mean you’re weak; it simply means you care about another person and want them to know that you made a mistake. It’s not that hard to say sorry as long as you are willing to take responsibility for your actions. The only people who get offended by apologies are the ones who never want to take responsibility or just don’t care. How many times in a day do you get offended? I can’t say it enough; if you never make mistakes, you will never get hurt. My mother once told me “the only person who’ll never be disappointed by your actions is a person who doesn’t know you.” It is better to apologize rather than not. There will be no need to pretend that you didn’t do anything wrong, and most importantly, there will be no need to feel ashamed of yourself. Saying sorry doesn’t make you weak; it makes you a better person.
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why should i apologize for the monster i ve become
why should i apologize for the monster i ve become