Introduction: Let’s Start with Why You Shouldn’t Talk to Your Crush on the Phone
I know you might be thinking, “Hey, I already talk to her. She likes me, too.”. I’m shaking my head and sighing at that thought because it’s just delusional. That’s like saying that you only eat a slice of pizza while your friend eats the whole thing and you still end up feeling satisfied because you had some. If she likes you and likes you more than she should, it can just make things weird. Also, are you sure that she really does like you and like you more than she should or are you just reading into the fact that she gives you the time of day for being your charming self? I’m not saying you don’t have the charming self thing going for you because I’m not that heartless. But, I’m just saying, maybe you’re in your own little world and you’re seeing what you want to see.
How Often You Should Call Them?
You might say, “Oh, I don’t want to call her everyday. I only want to call her on special occasions like Christmas and whatnot”. That’s just a stupid thing to think because you’re going to end up sounding not so charming when you don’t call her for a month and then all the sudden you call her on Christmas.
And even though you might be thinking to yourself, “Oh I’ll just text her everyday”. That’s not enough either. You want to sound like you’re interested in her.
How To Get Them To Call You Back When They Reject The Call?
Basically, you want to call her back on the same day that you had called her in the first place. Don’t call her the next day because then she will be more angry than she already is. You have to have some consideration for their feelings so don’t make it awkward. Also, don’t leave a message and then call them back the next day. You’ll just sound desperate and nasty that’s why I recommend leaving a message. An even better way to get them calling you back is to give them a reason to call you back.
For example: tell them you are busy and that you’ll call them tomorrow. This way she’ll want to call you back to make sure that you will call her back the next day because she will want to know what the message was about when you called her. This is a great way to get them to call you back. It takes a little strategy but it’s worth it in the end.