You know how Steve from Blues Clues had a crush on you and wrote you an e-mail when you were 12? And you spent months trying to make him like you back, but he just wouldn’t? And finally, after a while, he confessed he liked someone else? And figured there was nothing to be done about it?, and you felt rejected?
And now it turns out he’s really sorry for ghosting you in a sneaky, mean way that was even worse than being open and honest and sort of just like, giving you a chance? And he realized he’d made a mistake, so he’s sending an apology e-mail up to your college dorm room at Harvard?
That’s happened to me. Maybe some of you have spoken to steve from blues clues too.
Here’s a story that has nothing to do with me. But was inspired by a friend of mine, who’s [NAME REDACTED].
Blog topic: Steve from Blues Clues is Sorry for Ghosting You – What To Do When You’re Left In The Dark By Your Ex
It’s been a few weeks since Steve from Blues Clues decided to ghost you and leave you in the dark. Now, that’s enough time for any of your friends to tell you what they’ve heard: Steve likes someone else. He’s still going through with his breakup with you, but he can’t be bothered to tell you. At all. You’re not worth his time. It’s a hard pill to swallow, but you can’t take any of that personally. He’s never even met you! You were just a part of his dating pool, and there may or may not come a day when he regrets that decision.
blog outline: Introduction – Why Does Steve from Blues Clues Unfollow You on Social Media Without Ever Mentioning It?
The first question you have to ask yourself is, “Why would Steve do this to me?” and the second question is, “What do I do now?” Maybe Steve from Blues Clues unfollowed you because you weren’t his type, he was bored of talking to you, or maybe Steve just got really busy and forgot about you. The point is that, if the answer to these two questions is something unpleasant or unexpected, then it will be much easier for you to accept your new reality than if the answer were something that makes more sense.
So let’s explore some ideas as to why Steve might have unfollowed you without speaking a single word.
The first idea is that Steve has been “ghosted” by you and this results in a more difficult process of acceptance. Ghosting is when someone you know un-follows you as a way to prevent you from seeing their posts or photos on social media. If you are ghosted, it can feel like they have forgotten about you , but the truth is that they just didn’t feel like talking anymore. They might have even been busy or inappropriate with their social media activity and had no time to talk to you.
Why Ghosting Is A Terrible Choice And Other Ways to Address A Breakup
Ghosting is a trend among millennials, and it’s a very cowardly way to end a relationship. It’s true that it’s the easiest way out for you, but why would you want to be thought of as someone who does this to someone else? You’ve spent enough time and effort on this, and you deserve to know why it’s coming to an end.
You need to respect the other person’s decision and show them that. There are a few reasons you’d want to do this, but the only reason you want to do this is because you’re afraid of the consequences of being seen as someone who ghosted someone else. It’s going to be looked at as a weakness on your part, and that’s something many people associate with your generation.
Sometimes, it’s hard for us to let go of our exes, because we have so much history with them. We invested so much time and money in that relationship, and now it’s time to move on. That’s the reality of the situation, but if you ghost someone, you’re basically telling them that they had no value to you or their presence with your life.
If you want to break up with a person, do so nicely and gently. You don’t want to inflict a punishment upon someone who hasn’t done anything wrong.
Ghosting someone is a cowardly way to break up with them, and it’s not going to do you any favors. Just know that an ex will be hurt by this, and that’s something you have control over. It’s a tricky situation, because you have to think about what the other person wants if they ghosted you.
What Should You Do When Your Ex Gets Back Together With Someone Else?
This isn’t the time to be excited because you’re no longer single. It’s the time to be sad because you were foolish enough to get into a relationship with someone who didn’t really want one in the first place. You’ve waited long enough. It’s unhealthy for your friendships and it’s not fair on the person who ended up with them. You just want to move on.
So how do you start again?
Don’t Focus On The Relationship You’re Over
It won’t help you to spend your time thinking about how great it was. It will only make you sad. You’ve got to keep busy. There’s no point sitting there and crying over what was when you could be concentrating on what will be.
Find Your Old Hobbies