How to get over a guy who didn’t chase you after you broke up with him.
When you end a relationship and the guy doesn’t chase you—even if it’s because he doesn’t feel like he needs to—you’re probably going to be hurt. But if that’s the price you have to pay for being honest with yourself and with him, then it’s probably worth it. We all know that guy who wants us back only because we’ve broken up. He is a major player who is only interested in us as long as we are available to him. And if we break up and he sees that we don’t need him, he completely loses interest in us.
This guy is a total jerk, but what he really has done is give you some space to figure out who you want to be with. And in all likelihood, he’s the one who was at fault or the one who needs your help. Look at this guy’s behavior and then look inside yourself. Is he the only one who is hurt?
Does he call or text you in hopes of getting back together (or worse yet, convince you to go out with him)? Does he try to distract you from a bad breakup or get you to forget about it? Does he try to make up excuses for why things didn’t work out between the two of you? Does he push himself on you in any way? If so, break his off and stay away. There are tons of other fish to fry out there.