Wed. Jul 6th, 2022

Oh my gosh, it’s so hard to summarize this because the article talks about a lot of different things. I guess in general it is about how her matchmaking partner is her student and she has never been able to find a match for him which makes sense since he is a troublemaker. She likes to make him sad and try to release his stress but it just doesn’t work out. Then he becomes a teacher in her school and she pushes him away because realizing that he is actually not a bad person but rather an immature one she finds herself wanting to be with him. She thinks it is better for him not to be able to get into trouble at school if he gets in trouble at home, so she end up getting herself a job as a teacher. It’s a really cute story, but I really don’t feel too invested in it. Also the man is a college student who has no plans of ever becoming married, so I think as far as short term relationships go this is not the best one. I feel the woman is a little too old for him, and I feel like she may be sexually frustrated (since she talks about how even when he puts her in such a good mood that she just wants to make physical contact with him)

my matchmaking partner is my student and a troublemaker
my matchmaking partner is my student and a troublemaker

Blog Outline:

His actual dating life is basically as he describes it, trouble. He is a very irresponsible student and she pretty much hands him over to his mother who handles the majority of all child raising responsibilities. Her job as a teacher is to catch him when he makes mistakes and humiliate him in front of the whole class until he learns how to be responsible [which doesn’t work because she’s not being serious]. Her grade for the day comes off to be an “incomplete” because he had the courage to speak his mind and stand up for what he believes in, which of course was a terrible and unreasonable decision. He didn’t complete the assignment because he didn’t have time to finish it since his class was running late and his teacher felt like she needed to do more work in order to finish it on time. He had another teacher look at the assignment and give him an “incomplete” grade for not finishing it [on a day she gave only three hours of work].

my matchmaking partner is my student and a troublemaker
my matchmaking partner is my student and a troublemaker

Introduction: Your Student and Your Matchmaking Partner?

If your student is in one of your groups, it’s probably because he needs something: to make up work, to get caught up, or maybe he just doesn’t like the teacher. They are probably not there because they like you, or because they think you’re awesome. I’m going to assume that most of you reading this have students who are not exactly happy to be in the class. They might come in and sit down, mumble a quiet “hello” while giving you the opposite of eye contact, and then slouch down in their chair. Totally lost, they just stare at their desk or out the window. They don’t volunteer to help or work hard. They do the bare minimum and never ask for help. You may even have one or two who are always misbehaving. It happens in every class, but it’s a little more likely to happen in a remedial or even remedial-like class where you’re teaching a new subject area and they’re not used to teaching it.

my matchmaking partner is my student and a troublemaker
my matchmaking partner is my student and a troublemaker

The Benefits of a Student-Student Relationship

There are many advantages to having a student-student relationship with your group members. A student can be there for you when the sitter is sick, the dog ate their homework, or they fell asleep before their alarm went off. They can be there for you in case of a car accident or broken leg, if you have a special-needs child, or to help out with some task that needs to be done. Whatever your need might be they are usually more than happy to help. The student is not only always there for you as a friend, they also become a much-needed resource and helper.

my matchmaking partner is my student and a troublemaker
my matchmaking partner is my student and a troublemaker

Tips on How to Manage the Dating Expectations of Your Child with a Matchmaking Partner

So now that you’re a big-kid matchmaker, where do you begin? It helps to start by knowing what your child is looking for. Knowing what they want in a matchmaker will help you focus on them and give them exactly what they’re looking for instead of always trying to read their minds. Make sure to find out everything that they want in a partner – age, gender, appearance, income level, education level. These are the basic things to find out, the rest you can figure out once you have a matchmaker who fits your child’s preferences.
It helps to figure out ahead of time if you want to play a major or minor roll in the matchmaking process. As the adult, you will be given the responsibility of making sure that your child finds someone. If you are playing a major role in the matchmaking process, it is best to keep yourself informed and updated on your child’s progress from start to finish so that you know if they found someone worthwhile or not. If you are not playing a major role in the matchmaking, it is best to have someone else sit in on your child’s dates, such as a parent, close friend or sibling. With this person there to keep you informed, you can play a minor roll and take it from there.

my matchmaking partner is my student and a troublemaker
my matchmaking partner is my student and a troublemaker